The things everyone asks.
One match a day, an app that ends, a Coach instead of a feed — it raises questions. Here are the answers.
What are the "3Bs"?
Three dimensions of compatibility we score every match on: Brains (how you'll talk — communication style, love language, conflict), Brand (what you stand for — values, ambition, life purpose), and Body (how you live — lifestyle, energy, location). Your one daily match is scored on all three, and the card shows you exactly how it lands on each.
How does matching actually work?
Four specialist agents read your profile and every candidate's. Compatibility looks at 3Bs, lifestyle, and logistics. Values reads your green flags, dealbreakers, and beliefs. Conversation imagines how the first chat would actually go. Safety screens for the patterns that don't add up. The strongest fit rises to the top and shows up at your drop hour, with a short note from Coach on why.
Why one match and not infinite swipe?
Two clear options — Pass or Connect — keep the rhythm calm and the bar honest. One considered match makes the moment intentional instead of a slot machine. When you and your match both Connect, a chat opens. One conversation at a time, until it resolves.
What if I don't like today's match?
Pass, and your next match arrives at your hour tomorrow. (Your first few passes are free; after that there's a short wait before the next one, to keep the bar honest.) You can also tighten your discovery preferences — age, distance, lifestyle, the long-distance toggle — anytime in Settings.
How does the app actually end?
It's a literal button. After your first IRL meetup, a "We're official" entry appears in the chat menu. When both of you tap it, matchmaking pauses for both — your daily drops stop, the chat becomes the heart of the relationship, and the app gets out of your way. Either of you can also undo it — both sides re-enter the matching pool, no shame, no data lost.
Does it work for long-distance?
Yes. The distance slider goes up to 160 km (100 mi) for nearby matching, or you can flip on the "open to long-distance" toggle to match across cities. When it's time to pick a venue, the app asks whose city you're meeting in — so the recommendations actually make sense.
Who can match with whom?
Datestiny is built for opposite-sex matching between Woman and Man profiles.
How much does it cost?
Free to install, set up, and get your daily match — including Connect and chat. Datestiny Pro unlocks Coach's full insights: the "Coach's take" on each match and the detailed 3Bs breakdown. Monthly or annual, billed through the App Store. No free trial. Cancel anytime in Settings.
What about privacy and safety?
Face verification runs on your device — no biometric data is stored or transmitted. Your data lives on Firebase with strict security rules and isn't used to train any general-purpose AI. Block and report live one tap away inside any chat, and you can delete your account — profile, photos, matches and all — anytime from Settings.
Where can I get Datestiny?
Datestiny is launching soon on iOS, with Android to follow. Join the waitlist and we'll email you the day it goes live.
Still curious?
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